There's no such thing as investing too much time in people we care about. This is grace, we just flow with the spirit. Trust that Jesus makes things beautiful in his time, no strife, no expectations, no disappointments.
Freely we receive, freely we give. In every area there is lack, be emotional, spiritual, financial, mental I declare Jesus over all! Jesus is our portion. It's not us giving but Jesus giving through us.
We must never be defined by achievements, assets or anything other than Jesus. We are precious, fearfully and wonderfully made.
We gotta hang out with Jesus more and more! That's the secret garden that rejuvenates us =)